I am so… tied up with the fine degrees of my understanding of certain words and concepts I think I get myself into trouble.
Example:
I really like the way the authors of this book explain what submission is in marriage. They don’t say it’s not part of the job description (what I’m beginning to think people hear when I try to explain it), they say submission is not the woman’s role.
So often in the descriptions I hear, husbands (not just *men*) are to lead and wives are to submit (only to their own husband but that’s another post). These statements are biblical enough, but to line them up in parallel to each other, makes them sound like the two primary jobs.
My quibble just comes in the application of the words. Leading is action, something to do. Submission is a reaction. Not a doing.
There are those who will argue that is the whole point. I argue a not isn’t how you define a role. A role is something you do. Continue reading