Why look deep within yourself for the answers you seek? You’re the one who’s confused.
I bought the bike tonight. Or, technically Jay did. I get to take my first “real” (longish-for-me) ride tomorrow morning.
Oh, and now Jay and I are looking at road bikes. The skinny-wheeled, self-propelled kind. Visited all three of our local bike shops today. Interesting how each of them have their own personalities….
The problem I’ve found with saying exactly what I mean, is that once I’ve said it, there’s nothing else to say. If it’s not understood or taken seriously, I am left with two unattractive options: remain not-understood, or say something less exact than I’ve already framed.