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Monthly Archives: March 2008
Favorite posts from Year 2 (Part 1)
Ah me. It’s that time of year again.
The end of another year of blogging and my chance to introduce myself and my writing to a boatload of lovely new readers (Hi, how are you? Are you coming to the party?).
For you new folks: I write prolifically, but on very little of anything that could be called a schedule.
Probably the best way to keep track of posting is through some kind of feed-reader, but I adore comments, so please click through and share your mind.
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This was the best way I’ve yet come up with to show the insane lack of focus in my lovely essays. :P I hope some titles intrigue you enough to check them out and the content interests you in coming back.
February 2007 to June 2007
- Callings and Being: a patchwork of thoughts.
- Practice as Service: Blogging isn’t a waste of my time.
- A plea to leave the stories alone: One of my first “commentary” pieces, about leaving folk and fairy tales intact.
- Revisiting Poems: I frequently find peace in discovering someone else’s words to say exactly what I’m feeling.
- The Beauty of Provision– one pearl from a necklace describes my last morning with my precious grandmother.
- Kids and Questions: how I deal with the never-ending flow.
- Good Tea: drawing analogies that sit in front of me.
- What does complete Dependence really look like?
- Carpe Diem… Patiently
- E.A. (Explainers Anonymous): one of my biggest challenges.
- A healthy look at Humility
- A Story of my Love. Sort-of.
- Stories and their Poems
- Cute kid-story
- Cute “couple” story
Just saw What a Girl Wants
And I really liked it.
Never saw it before. I’ll have to watch it again with Jay (he comes home tonight) and then I’ll know if I love it or if it was just a sweet diversion to share with my girls while waiting for Daddy to get home.
I think it’s poor arguing to define things by what they’re not, but I like that this movie had no bad behavior from the leads. It also avoided most bad language and portrayed relationships with parents as a valuable part of life.
I liked that much of the music was part of the story (rather than exclusively soundtrack-building), and the father-daughter dance theme was precious.
Some favorite lines:
Father: I’m not explaining this very well, am I?
Daughter (Daphne): No, not really. But I’m having fun watching you try.
Step-mother-to-be: Now Daphne, we don’t want to make a scene now, do we?
Mother: Take your hand off my daughter or you won’t get a scene, you’ll get a Broadway Musical!
Count Alaric’s Lady– A Tuesday Tale (Part 2)
(Read Part 1 first.)
Count Alaric did not question his wife further about Midsummer’s Eve.
He saw only two possibilities: either she would remember nothing and his questions would distress her, or she would know but continue to tell him nothing, and he could not bear to hear her lie.
He went finally to the wise woman Magda, who had helped his mother before him, and sought her advice. Magda told him to bring her a lock of his wife’s hair.
When he had brought the lock, Magda stood,
holding the hair, like a faint imprisoned moonbeam, in her strong brown hands.
Then she dropped it on the coals of her fire, and it burned with a green flame. With great pity in her face, Magda informed the count he had married one of the fairy folk.
It was her people and their music that continually filled that corner of her mind that never was present with him. It was being away from her people that made her unable to know who she was or whence she had come.
“But then she may someday dance with them and never return,” said Count Alaric. “How may I keep her from always thinking of this other place?”
“There is one way,” replied Magda, “by which a mortal can win one of the fairy people for himself, and that is by offering her a love so perfect that it leaves no room in her mind for memories of any other life.”
“But my love is already perfect,” Count Alaric insisted. “I would fight or live or die for her. There is nothing more I can do.”
“There must be,” Magda pointed out gently, “or she would already be yours.”
So Count Alaric spent the following months being, if possible, even more tender and solicitous to his wife, never letting a day go by without expressing his affection.
And while she always accepted his attentions and tokens with delight, he grew sorrowful as he observed the distant part of her never diminished.
He was careful to conceal his sorrow, however, and settled in his mind as Midsummer again drew near that he would follow his wife to the dancing place and capture her home again.
He would not allow the fairy folk to steal her away.
Count Alaric’s Lady– A Tuesday Tale (Part 1)
From Barbara Leonie Picard’s The Faun and the Woodcutter’s Daughter.
Riding through his lands the morning of midsummer’s day, young Count Alaric came upon a dazed young lady wandering in the early-morning dew.
He was more distressed than she at her lack of memory, and took her home. While he could not discover who she was, he found her lovely, and she was willing, so they married and were happy together.
The Lady had no skills, neither for entertainment, nor of industry, but as she was the wife of a count, with servants to care for her, and seemed to need no amusing, it made no difference.
Count Alaric loved her greatly, but while she seemed fond of him, part of her mind always seemed to be somewhere else, and once Count Alaric observed her dancing strangely to music only she could hear.
Count Alaric took her hands in his, “Tell me, Catherine,” he said, “tell me the truth, are you happy with me?”
She smiled and laughed and kissed him. “Of course I am happy with you,” she said.
But his heart was heavy, even as he took her in his arms, for he saw still the look in her eyes, as though she thought of something else.
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Later, near again to Midsummer’s Day and returning early from a three-day trip, Count Alaric hurried, desiring to see her on the anniversary of their first meeting.
Approaching a great meadow near his castle, his horse’s hooves making no noise in the thick grass, he saw a group of 20 or 30 figures dancing in the moonlight and realized it was the fairies celebrating Midsummer’s Eve.*
Then he realized that one of the figures was not dancing in green but in crimson and gold, and he recognized his Lady Catherine.
Afraid the fairy folk had bewitched her and would carry her off with them, he drove his horse toward them at a gallop, but their nearness suddenly spooked the animal and it bolted from the clearing and back the way it had come.
It was three miles before Count Alaric regained control and forced its head toward home.
The Lady Catherine was in her bed when he went to find her, and she was happy we was home early. But she was also tired, though she denied having been anywhere in the night.
She was in earnest and guileless, and Count Alaric already believed her, full of relief, when he turned and saw the crimson gown draped over a chair.
Its skirt was heavy with dew.
I hope to finish this tale tonight or tomorrow morning.
*There are several different images of the fairies. I hope you understand by now that the fairies of this story were not the “little people” of pixie dust and wings, but the haunting type, barely distinguishable from humans.
So… What does it say about me?
I have two empty 1-gallon tubs of ice cream in the dirty-dishes bin under my sink.
It’s been so long between a complete dishes-washing (i.e., more than a single pot or pan for a night’s dinner) that my family has gone through two gallons of ice cream.
Yes, the sickness streak broke my good-housekeeping streak and I’m trying to get back on-top of things.
So think what you want. That we eat a lot of ice cream (we do) or we let dishes go a long time (we do).
I just thought it was a funny random fact. Take it how you will. ;)
Holding it Together
At the church I was visiting this morning a fellow was talking about a conversation he’d had with his brother who’s not a believer.
They were sharing the regular stuff about car trouble and sickness going through the family, until the one brother said to the other:
“It really doesn’t make any difference, does it?”
“What”
“Your being a Christian. You’re going through all the same junk that I am. What good is Christianity?”
And I loved the Christian brother’s response. He told his brother there is this verse in scripture (Corinthians 1:17) that points out:
In Him (Christ) all things hold together.
And there it is right there.
We Christians don’t claim to be better people, and we’re not saying going to church instantly fixes everything.
We’ve just found the One that can hold it together, and are learning to live on the strength He provides.
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I get so disappointed sometimes when I hear people talking negatively about “the church.”
Part of that is because it is my culture (know any other peoples with a strong sense of culture that enjoy it being minimized or maligned?).
Part of that is because I know the complainers frequently are griping based on a stereotype.
And part of my let-down is that the “culture at large” seems to expect us to be better than them, somehow. Really.
I wonder what people expect the church to do. On the one hand they say, “Don’t judge me.”
Which is fine: Paul, one of the major (human) writers of the New Testament, basically said the behavior of those outside the church wasn’t his concern as a spiritual leader, it was those inside.
Then, with the next breath, these people who want to be let alone judge those they see, saying (it seems) “How dare you be imperfect?” (I think we all know Christians don’t have the corner on hypocrisy. Just the spotlight.)
It was Jesus himself who said,
“It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”
This is what the pastor talked about this morning: the church being imperfect.
He quoted Philip Yancy (I should have asked which book, because I didn’t recognize this) when he pointed out three humiliations Jesus had to endure:
- Becoming a human baby (and all the helpless ignominy that includes).
- To die on a cross like a common criminal; a sinless man with all the wrath of God heaped upon him for the sin of the world.
- To leave his representation and reputation in the hands of fallible, sinful people.
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People sin. People do stupid things. People do things that wreck their own lives and wound those around them.
And Christians are people.
The whole reason true Christians are in church, the reason we’ve submitted ourselves to the Lordship of Christ, is because we know we don’t have it all together.
We’ve usually proven to ourselves and to others that we’re not capable of getting it together.
And that is why we look outside of ourselves.
He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation.
For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him.
And he is before all things, and in him all things hold together.